OK, I'm back, after phase-2 of my "simple Axle-Disconnect-delete conversion".
Phase one was putting in manual hubs
Phase two - here.
Phase three - whatever else I still have to do

So the goal was to pull the front diff out and see if there is a way it can be welded or otherwise set to be "engaged" full time.
Take note I've never done this before so I was learning how it all comes apart as I go. So, I knew about the driver's side driveshaft, that was easy.
Then that bitch passenger side. Somewhere I read that it is apparently easier to unbolt the strut instead of the balljoint. Well I prepped beforehand by undoing all the abs wire mounts and brake hose and removing the caliper. Left the disc on and the hub as well, disconnected the swaybar link and tierod. I put a jackstand under the control arm and lowered the car down onto it (yes I'm using a hoist

). Bottom strut bolt snapped. Had to heat the knuckle a bit and then pound it out with the air hammer. Anyway, once the knuckle/brake disc was flopping around on the ball joint, raised the car and then started levering the control arm way far down to get the driveshaft out of the diff!! Holy crap I had to go far, it's near impossible to do that without screwing up the seal!! The inner joint doesnt bend far enough. I didn't want to pull the driveshaft out of the knuckle as I had
just installed the hubs two days before and I didn't want to take them apart already. I think next time I'll pull the disc off as well. All that stuff was
really heavy when you're trying to wrestle that around
and wrestle the spring back into position
and carefully guide the driveshaft back into the diff
and fight with the swaybar. (I didn't know the control arm had to drop down that far.)
Next was pulling the actual diff out. I was about to start taking the catalyst/crossover pipe out make the first turn when my co-worker said "the third member comes out a lot easier when you take the whole case out of the car. Look, just undo this big bolt here, this one here, and these two here". HOLY Jeez,
now he tells me, just in time. I've been here on zukiworld this long and never knew it came out like that?? What's wrong with this site? I thought the front 3rd member had to come out, just like the rear 3rd member does - the pumpkin/case stays in the car.
Fast forward some and we now have the diff out of the case and on the bench. I "activate" the actuator gently with shop air, and I can see how the plate moves over. Considered welding but figured the slag would not be good, even from tiny tack welds. We saw that a nice "valley" about 1/8" wide opened up when the diff was pressurized. So then we tried to think of something to hold it over with no air. Like Frank84 said, that wave spring is very light. We need a snap ring or something. Then we noticed that this "valley" doesn't spin with the ring gear. Eventually we came up with:
Zip ties. Two long zip ties, 3/16" wide, about 1' long. I held the diff "activated" with air pressure and wrapped the zip tie around the actuator in the "valley". Then I moved the "head" of the zip tie until it pointed down, cut off the excess, then put in another zip tie directly over the first one but with the head on top, so they're opposite each other on the actuator. I released the air pressure, and the diff stayed engaged!! The "heads" are only very lighty rubbing on a part that spins with the diff, but mostly the wraps themselves are holding the actuator engaged. Another good thing is that the wraps are 100% plastic, not even a metal bit in the head. That way if they fail while I'm screaming down the road it won't grind up gear teeth. I think this'll do the trick!
But first I have to do phase 3:
First off, has anyone here heard of Suzuki TSB # TS 06 05227? Apparently there is a part called a "drive shaft support" P/N 27619-65D00. It
looks like a nylon bushing or donut (they call it "the new additional support ring") that is installed before the right hand seal. In anycase I ordered that too with the seal but it's going to be 2 weeks for it to get here. (!?)

I ended up destroying the old seal pulling the driveshaft out, so right now I'm driving around with no oil in the front diff and the hubs unlocked. At the same time, I noticed my right front shock is pretty much dead. I could compress it all the way and pull it down fairly easily, even though it's not leaking.

Got to find replacements. Hmmm, something that can take a pounding...
Anyway, once I get that axle support ring and new seal I can fill the diff and try out my simple-Axle-Disconnect-delete and see how it goes. Hopefully it'll stand up to 100+km/h (or thereabouts). Hopefully also there won't be any weird vibrations or anything with the hubs locked in 2WD.
So now I wait... In the meantime, my brother's poor Lincoln was broken by a huge sinkhole.
James