OK, trip to Alberta went fine other than blowing the front diff being a showoff...anyways I don't know if this front end setup is satisfactory yet. It seems like it bottoms out too easily on small to medium bumps at speed and I still think there is too much down-travel. I measured before and after I installed the BDS extension and I now have 2" more down-travel than before, and I think that is probably quite a bit more than I needed. I am considering taking it all apart (AGAIN! what is this the 5th or 6th time? I've lost count, but I can do it in the dark now so I guess there is some advantage!) and hacking about an inch off the BDS extension if I can still remove it from the strut piston. I hit one particular huge bump WAY too fast and I felt my struts bottom out really harsh - therefore, my bumpstops ain't doin jack-all! So maybe a little fine tuning is still necessary to get this $&*!()!*(|removethispart|@ "system" figured out.
Oh, and for what it's worth, I did get in contact with Calmini eventually. They figure that part of the problem might have something to do with the fact that since I ordered my kit in February, I still have their "old style" springs. The difference between their old and new springs is the manufacturing process. The old ones are hot-wound coils and the new ones are cold-wound. This means that the old ones need an extreme workout to get them broken in and to have them sit at the correct height. The new cold-wound springs do not necessitate this, which would possibly explain why not all Calmini lifts suck ass for everyone else out there!
Since I cut my springs down to accomodate for the stiffness, and then wheeled it good and hard over the summer, it is safe to say the springs are sufficiently broken in. Also, I gave them my ride height measurements and they confirmed that it is sitting at the correct height. After reviewing all my information, the only thing they could suggest was to run a 1" wheel spacer up front to put some more leverage on the spring.