Was this referring to me? 
Didnt direct that anyone in particular, it's just an observation after a few years reading zuk message boards. A couple times a year some guy will come into a BBS and tell everyone that their wife has decided to leave or get a divorce or something and they had no idea it was coming. That's OK, it happens.
But when the guy's previous posts indicate that his life pretty much revolves around his garage or wheeling then spending huge amounts of time in his garage fixing the stuff he broke, then I just shake my head. If you (meaning whomever) spent more time with your wife and less time in the garage, you'd know what your wife was thinking and feeling and maybe you could have dealt with whatever issue caused the divorce/separation/whatever before it got to that point.
Maybe I'm just trying to project my values onto other people, but I believe when you get married it means you shouldn't go on acting like you are single and have nothing but your own free time. Getting married means making a commitment to another person and that generally entails paying attention to them, at least enough to have some clue about what they're thinking.
Again, I don't have any particular person in mind with this rant and I'm sure that every situation has some kind of special circumstances that someone thinks justify their actions, but the general principle holds true regardless of the circumstances.
~daxe