ok i figured out what the noise was
it wasn't the cv's, it wasn't a bearing, it wasn't my u-joints going south, it wasn't even any gears or nuts or bolts or anything like that..... what it was you ask... go ahead ask...
what was it ddevil?
it was these stupid shinny friggin chrome looking rim trim things that were making the noise. i had a hunch that's what it was(you know those shinny things people put/snap on their rims to make them look pretty?) and fortunately for me i was right. took me five minutes to take the pieces of crap off and i'm soooo much happier.
with this problem solved, and my cigarette lighter issue taken care of, i'm a pretty happy person.... thanks everyone though, i really appreciate the help

mike