Personally Brian,
I have a few questions for you.  No answer needed.
#1) Do you feel that Heather is 'stupid'?
#2) Do you expect the vendors whom you do business with to talk about their customers, publically I might add, this way?
#3)Do you feel that Heather and I are phoney as a 3 dollar bill?
#4)Again would you like to do business with a company who talks about their customers this way?
Granted it might have been wrong for Heather to 'add fuel to the fire', however she may genuinely feel, may have heard and wanted to express her opinions about Calmini.
For this, about all we can do to genuinely assist in 'solveing the problem', would be for us to ask questions from, and guide the misguided.
#1- No I do not think Heather is stupid. But to rephrase the question to; do I think her comment on pirate was stupid, yes I do. It had little relivance to the thread it is was obviously a cheap shot at continuing a rumor heard on line (or elseware) that had ZERO proof to back it, a 100% false statement that should of nerver been stated.
#2 If I were in his shoes I HOPE I would of handleded it differently, BUT in this situation Heather was no longer a customer, but from the appearance of the post an X customer that jumped right on the Pirate band waggon trying to bash Calmini, right along with the other nedless BS posts in that thread
#3 No I do not feel that you are phony, maybe a bit arrogant, but not phony. You'll have done a great job developing your ride into a one of a kind ride, and I have always respected you'll for that, but if you look back at your last years of postings, you'll are getting arrogant with your posts, and the comment made in that post WAS a phony week ass statement aimed at only stiring up more shit on pirate.
#4 I will continue to do business with Steve and his company as long as they continue to deliver the top notch products they have ALWAYS delivered. As far as the speaking to their customers like that, If I was bashing their company and spreading false rumors about them just to stir up shit, I would expect to hear comments like that (but it should of been done in private) even though it appeared that he was replying to NON-customers or x customers that had jumped on a bitch fest about items they could of easily changed with only TWO phone calls(1 to Calmini to cancel their order and the next to order it somewhere else)
I do feel it was wrong for her to add fuel to the fire, especially in a fight that she had no involvement in, and I do agree that the misslead needs to be informed (WITH FACTS NOT RUMORS and bitchy people that complain on line before they ever voice a problem with the vendor. Every bit of this continuing debate and bitch fest could of been avoided by one person voicing is opinion on Calminis handling of his order and simply cancling the order and buying form one of the many other vendors available for the same parts.
Zig