Uh, what happened to the GV?
I'm not sure shocks will help, it's the springs that are stiff for you're daily driving. Here's a couple things I've been thinking about, I'm going to be getting the calmini lift in the new year, and want to use boondox 3" lift springs, and won't be able to afford them right away, so here's what I was thinking:
-Use stock springs with coil spacers

-Use Grand Vitara coil springs(+2" on 1st gen), and 1" coil spacers.