That totally sucks. The way you presented the situation without mentioning names shows me at least ,your a reasonable person. I don't know what you should do, besides possibly revealing the culprits name to the moderator. I do believe we have a list of questionable users. I'm sure there are rules and such regarding this situation, Mr. moderator, care to chime in? Me, I guess I'm not that reasonable, I'd plaster his/her name all over this and any other forum as a rip off. Good Luck.
This is a very relevant post for all of us here. and it brings us back to that other recent nightmare someone experienced here for over a GRAND. And our requests for a good vendor/bad vendor forum.
The thing about simply reporting the name to the moderator is that it's so easy for rip-off artists to just log onto a website and sell person to person under a diferent user name. That's why eBay, although sellers sometimes complain they're being reamed by them, is such a great place to BUY.
They have the personnel to monitor this nonsense and assure a good buy for you.
And although people may bash the postal service and UPS (I'm not one of them although I'm not a BIG fan of UPS), things don't just "get lost" nowadays. This is America--not Colombia.
He fed you BS to begin with, and his non-responses to you confirm that.