Well got the harness, everything went in fine...
BUT, it came with some ground wire with a clip on the end seprate from the rest of the harness wich i didnt need...
as for that wire i didnt know what it did, i ended up following it closer and it was actully the ground wire hooked under a bolt under the carpet behind the dash, easily pulled back the carpet to reveal it...
then just used a socket wrench unhooked that negative, hooked up the new negative on the stereo harness and i was done, placed the carpet back...
picture of finshed project below....
but now i gotta get a new climate control plastic as you can see in the pic, a small section broke off right below the red ..
