First off, how long does it take the average Joe, or Dan in this case, to pull a motor from a 2001 Tracker? I have the manual, and I've spent over two hours just finding all the wires to unplug. Then when I finally find em, I can't get the things to separate

. That's not my problem though, I think I have all the wires taken care of, and no I didn't just cut em, thought about it, but didn't. My problem is getting the right axle shaft to let go of the diff housing. The book says:
Using 2 large screwdrivers as levers, pull out right side drive
shaft joint from differential and dismount housing assembly from
vehicle.Well, I'm not having any luck with that. Is there a trick to this, or am I being punished for not tightening my stuff after a weekend of fun? Anything else I should think about whilst the motor is out? I'm hoping it'll just need a new crank kit, if not it may need a 4.3!