A mechanic told me once that connections are designed to be taken apart with one hand,I've never been able to do it without a small screwdriver and small needlenose pliers.Try not to pull on the wires,try to see how it locks,there is a little tab that you have to push in or pry out.My 2000 tracker Bank two sensor connection was under the carpet under the drivers seat so I slit the carpet a little bit to disconnect it and pull a bit of wire thru.The two sensors were about six inches different in length,and the one under the seat has a grommet to keep water out of the connection.