wich should you put on first? the body lift or suspension? or does it really matter..

It doesn't matter, personally i would go for a different body lift I wasn't impressed by the Calmini kit, the metal work isn't even painted or plated. The suspension kit is good though.

I would put the body lift on first, depending on how you are lifting the body off the frame, if you are using a hydraulic jack to do it  the lower the frame is to the ground the less you have to raise the jack.
 I just did a 2" body lift with a 2 ton floor jack and needed 2 pieces of 4x4 and a 2x4 stacked to get enough lift and almost used the full lift of the jack

OK i would do the body lift first,i just did mine this summer and the body is allot E-ZER than the sups lift make sure you put alto of WD-40 on everything nuts|removethispart|@bolts start with the front first and have a helping hand around just make sure you keep everything loose until you are done with the front end because its a pain to install  just follow the directions and good luck doing it in 8 hours like they said,if everything is rusty good luck . i got a 4 door 1994 sidekick with a calmini 6in combo 31in bf Mk2  tires 90000 Ramsey winch and Suki tuff front and rear bumper's

   90000 Ramsey winch and Suki tuff front and rear bumper's

I'd like one of those 90,000 lb winches! where did you get it 

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