Ya, I had the same trouble with my home brew lift. Did you change out the cup CV (passenger side in US)
to a flange? is that the side that is separating? as you did not specify tho I realize it could be both.
I added a spacer to my drivers side, but I also have the Hagen widening mod, so that created the problem,
have you done that mod too???
I had trouble with the balls in the CV pulling the shaft on the pass side, and the bearings ride on the wire retainer
ring to the point that it gets all bent and won't go back in if removed.
I ended up building an extended cup on the one side and a 1" spacer on the other, but have since gone to
a single CV shaft, (flanged both sides) and a GV long side axle shaft which is slightly longer than the OE shaft
so the spacer is only like 1/2" now.
Wild