The paperclip probably isn't the problem. I use them all the time and they work fine (but maybe I am using high quality paperclips

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The problem on why the CEL won't flash is probably because the reset switch under the dash needs to be flipped to the other position. The switch is screwed to the backside of the dash, between the steering column and the drivers side radio speaker. If you lay on your back, in the drivers floor board, and shine a light on the backside of the dash, you can sometimes see it. Otherwise, you just have to use your hand and feel for it. It is about 1" by 1/2" rectangle overall and the actual switch is maybe 1/8" by 1/4". It is a 2 way switch, so just flip it to the opposite position it is now...DON'T flip it and then flip it back.
Get the switch flipped and see if the CEL goes out. If it doesn't, then you can check for codes and get them fixed, before worrying about anything else.