Yeah well I'm confused

:-/
When everyone asks me "when you gonna lift it?" and I say I'm not I'm gonna lower it. They look at me like I'm retarded. Though when I tell them the prices on the 2 lift kits that I know of they kinda understand.
I like the look of both raised and lowered, but you guys are starting to get to me

and I'm leaning towards raised now since everyone that I know thinks I should too.
I just don't want to get into something that I can't do. My uncle has a welder(don't know what kind. Does it matter?) and does alot of mechanic stuff for family so he would help but I don't want to take up his garage for a week or so either.