Hello again
1) When I said make sure the ports match...it's because some header mfg's are selling round
  port headers to fit a square exhaust port...(IMHO)waste of money.
2) I'm along ways from being a rich race car driver, good header wrap properly installed is
  cheap, been on my experimental engines 4 years (same header, different engines), wifes
  kick 3 years, no sign of deterioration on the wrap or header.
3) Low hp engines tend to respond better to initial intake and exhaust mods than you would
  think. It doesn't matter what 4 cycle engine you are dealing with, good exhaust and intake
  breathing makes a difference. Besides when you start with not much a little makes a huge
  difference. Not just my experience, check around the forum those that are doing the mods
  report only great results. Dyno testing backs it up.
  Hope you sort out the problems on your engine.
Zag