Really need more info to diagnose.. They came with seats in the back from the factory, and the seat is super light.. I couldn't imagine that causing it to bottom out. Do you know what brand of lift is on it, and is it all suspension, or body lift as well?
Either way, something is wrong if just adding a 20lb seat is causing you to bottom out... The amount of fuel in your tank at any given time varies more than 20lb's.