Talked to a couple of my speed bump hating friends.
The best option they could come up with,
1. Beer for the headaches

2.Have a local fab shop make you some tubular control arms( takes care of your ball joints and alignment) and then taking some specs and ordering some coilovers that need least amount of work. all in all your going to need lots of beer

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The only reason I stated the coil overs is everbody there was in agreement that the stock struts and shocks on any car suck after you lower it.