
Sorry I didn't respond sooner, I've had to start working nights, and my schedule is all messed up.
So to answer your questions..
Certain FJ80 axles will come with the electric lockers STOCK. You'll have better luck with the lockers in axles out of 94-97 model year vehicles. Those are also front high pinion, and full floating front and rear. They sometimes consider those years the F -Z- J80.
The FJ80 axles front and rear are right hand (passenger side) offset.
Here's a site with a listing of used parts for an FJ80, axles included.
http://www.cruiserparts.net/parts/fj80.htmLook around at your local junkyards too. That's where we found ours.
Bobby Long also makes birfields for the FJ80s.
http://www.longfieldsuperaxles.com/As for the leaf springs, we run Sky Jacker "Rock Ready" Double Mil Wrap lift springs. They are strong springs, and may work for your setup. We run 2.5" lift in the front and 4" lift in the rear. They work well, and so far have settled perfect.
http://www.quadratec.com/cgi-bin/sgdynamo.exe?HTNAME=jeep/skyjacker/lifts.html&checked=YOur buddy with the Bowtie tracker (283 v8 203 tranny) uses the Skyjacker springs as well. He went 4" lift all the way around.
I bet that the weight the YJ's carry with the 4.0s in the front would most likely equal out similar to what you have, when decked out as well.
Stock Chevrolet Tracker Curb Weight - 2700-3000lbs
Stock Wrangler YJ - (from what i can find) is 3050-3400lbs.
Add bigger tires, bolt ons, etc... (I've googled and seen some jeeps weighing in at 6000 lbs)
Anyway.. I know MY truck weighs somewhere around 4-4500lbs curb weight. (amazingly) The springs have handled just fine.. and I haven't needed a traction bar. You may, with your engine, though.
You will also need to obtain or make a high steer arm for the FJ80 axle. We sent off our knuckle to OTT Industries who modified it, and made an arm for us. The price wasn't bad, and the arm is WAY strong.

You have to be patient with OTT, though. Don't be in a hurry. I think they're a three man shop, and get things done as they can, one after another. They do good work though.
Hope this helps. Let me know if I can answer more questions for you.