Alright so I got to pulling the transmission out today. Actually didn't take long at all, being it the 2nd time in a short while.
Once I got the clutch and transmission out I took a glance at the pilot bearing and this is what I saw.


Its set correctly and was not pressed further into the flywheel and at angle like I figured.
It also feels completely smooth (less and 5000 miles). The ball bearings have not "turned to dust" like I have read from other horror stories.
Then I began looking at the at the ring gear on the flywheel (concerns with the starter) and something caught my eye.

One end of the ring gear has been shaved and the other side hasn't. And as it turns out the shaved side faces the bell housing, or the rear bumper.

The other end faces the engine block, or the front bumper. As I felt this sides edge facing forward I felt beat up surface. Getting a good picture of this edge in focus was very hard, so you kind of have to find the areas in focus.

I'm left wondering, is the ring gear on the flywheel backwards? I would bet an arm that if the ring gear was flipped around and still allowed the starter teeth to engage while the solionod saw power; that the starter wouldn't slap around while I'm driving.
But in its defense all was quiet, smooth, and non-slappy before I took everything apart. So I dunno

I skipped the idea of wiggling the tranny free and then re-attaching it. When I got under it I noticed tranny fluid! WTF?!? So I just ran with it and found my sensors to be leaky. Its just my luck and this luck is the sole reason I only work on my cars. Sometimes I question why I contiune to tinker with fun stuff and just go buy a kia... I guess the best things in life are earned.
Also got a universal clutch alignment tool. Figured any work was futile without properly aligning the disk. The only place within 30 miles that carried it was NAPA and the thing was nearly $40 bucks after tax! Autozone only carries alignment tools with their clutch packages, they don't sell them individually

. Center force is getting an e-mail. Anyway figured I'd take a picture of it in case someone realizes that it won't work.

Hopefully everything gets tied up tomorrow and the test run doesn't have me pulling out my hair.
Parker.