Ok thanks for the replies guys, especially Samurai Dan since I took about a month to answer his last pm lol.
It's a pinging not a click/ratchet sound, and definately coming from the front. I'm thinking (and hoping) it's an axle getting worn. BRD HNTR: are you thinking of a sidekick 3 link? because the vitara is 4 link rear so im not sure what the diff mount would be as theres no centre link.
I guess im thrown off by the fact that it's not happening while rolling regardless of what angle the cv's are at..only when im hung up/buried in that slushy snowy muddy rocky stuff...you know...the good stuff

. But man do I hate that feeling like something could break if I push it a lil too far.